The Big Five test results...

here are the "BIG FIVE" test results of Mister Five Dollars

I'm a O47-C6-E2-A1-N93 Big Five!!

Speak up: share yourself with the rest of the world!

Here is what I come to realize: if you don't know what to do with your life because of mental illness you need to share it with the world to get feed back and understanding from others.

screw others who are working against you, who seems to put you down whenevr you sees them. tell the world that accept you, the world that respect you, the world that is on your side...but how hard is it to find such world, especially when you are challenged with social anxiety disorder.

i came from a country that have cultural ties to the most disliked features in the world at the moment. additionaly, SAD have making my adjustment to the world around me very difficult and even ...


Well, whatever you worry about: reputation, your dignity, and more can be spoiled if you don't do what you need to do, if you don;t show up and be present in the public eye...again SAD can make this hard for you. That's why you need to get help and don't let people speck for you in your place, speck for your self, speak up and out loud...your voice need to be heard

You can't get along with evrybody!

You can't get along with everybody, the truth of the matter is nobody does; no one, I mean no one gets along with everybody. Except that some people are more likable than others, so they are tolerated, while others are harshly cornered. They have to prove themselcves to everybody, worst than that, they have to walk on eggs without craking the shells.

As I said, Some people could manage to deal with people in a friendly way, they are likable, so they are accepted by the people wether they done wrong or they done right. But, it's hard when a person is not getting along with others, let alone when they are not getting along with everybody. Who is fault it is? the one who is not getting along with others? or the others who are not getting along with the individual?

It's a tricky question, but I'll do my best to answer it. Obviously most of you would say, no the problem is in the individual not in the crowd. Folowing the most rediculous concept ever created -Democracy- the majority is lways right...even if the majority consist of idiots and nut cases. As much as I want to agree with that, it's not always the case. Take for example the jews in the Hitler era, or the Muslims in the Bin Laden era, or the Blacks in the slvery/racism era...or... etc. you get the picture? Were they hated for a reason, were they asked to walk on eggs and not break the shells...yes! was that justified by the crwod? yes! Sadly, that's the way it is, unless we have something to say about it...which I assume we do have something to say about it, but are we going to say it?

Give it a minute...

Humans in some creeds are reduced to the animal level, in order for them to survive they have to litteraly kill someone, or in some cases everyone around them...and the kills they do are all justified if you look at them from their own perspectives. But, the kills that we see in performed by soldiers for oeil, hate, racism, and other purposes are not justified. I can even assure it that they will come back and bite you in the arse. especially when the principale we envisioned is :"don't mess with me, if you want me to not invade you and kill your people" we know what's wrong, we know what's right, we choose to the wrong thing, if it backlaches on us, let's not say: "we asked for it".

therefore, when we don't get along with someone, we better leave them alone. don't look into the differences too much rather into the similarities, I would say puff and make the world a peacfull place; you would, too. But, you don't want to, and I don't think I want either. That's why we are not getting along; just in case you want to change that...here is the tip: don't be afraid of talking to the other: whatever you disagree about, whatever you dislike about them, whatever you even hate about them can be something you could talk about and words always resolve conflicts. Keep in mind that some words make conflicts live forever, too. This means you need to choose your words, when you talk...

second tip: You can't really get along with everybody. some people doesn't have the mental abilities to process what you are up to, and their thoughts have left them behind and so did natural selection. So, don't ever try to get along with everybody, cauz you'll fail!

I wish I knew this before!

Here is the thing

There was a writer who wanted to leave a legacy behind him. He thought hard, used most of his brain cells, and wrote what he ccaled: The man who thinks he can... his name is Walter D. Wintle.

It comes to my attention that all he wrote is quite thoughtful and even down right true. thoses are the time where people think internally, they knew themselves very well, they knew what a person need and they help each other to reach their needs. Not in a time where everthing is a competition and the last one get a bone.

Yes, if you think you are beaten, you are; think about it. when you enter a game with a low moral, and low expectation, you will get what you expected wouldn't you?

If you think you dare not, you don't;
If you'd like to win , but you think you can't it's almost certain you won't.

If you think you'll lose, you've lost;
For out in the world we find success begins with a fellow's will;
It's all in the state of mind
If you think you're outclassed, you are;
You've got to think high to rise.
You've got to be sure of yourself before you can even win a prize.
Life battles don't always go to the stronger or faster man'
But soon or late the man who wins is the one who thinks he can!

What do you think of yourself, do you think you can?

Let yourself know it Then...

are you vulnerable?

There is no school for it....

I am not gonna shove this on your throat, unless you want me to. Well, it's everywhere, school, politics, workplace...it's called power plays, where someone try to take power over you, and you don't think that they deserve it, and of course, you don't want to give it. But here is the thing, you have no say in this, if you are someone who takes crap from others easily, then you probably being overthrwon many times.

here is your possible reaction, when you've heard those moron trying to bullshit you :


1.Compliance is when people appear to agree with others, but actually keep their dissenting opinions private.

2.Identification is when people are influenced by someone who is liked and respected, such as a famous celebrity or a favorite uncle.

3.Internalization is when people accept a belief or behavior and agree both publicly and privately.(wikipedia)

the fact of the matter is, manipulators are out there, and they work hard (it's their main duty) to envade small people, and make of them "slaves". and you think the time of slavery is over. Seriously, you may have being slacve of somebody, without even knowing it. you want to know more, read Milton Erickson...and come back and tell me what you think..

Damn thing

give people what they want,...

Here is the deal some people want you to be a joke, entertain them and make some kind of fool out of yourself. basically, debase your self to the lowest level you can...

Now a person who is like me would say: fuck the people, they are all idiots and asshole, I would do what they want? I have degnity and respect for myself...is it the right attitude? we will find out?

the other person, will do it with pleasure, he will give people what they want, and in exchange he will ask people to give him what he wants. and that's the birthy of a businessman. it's asmart way of leading a life, sneaky, especially if a person is hypocrit, and most of people are? he doesn't want to be what people want him to be but he will be it anyway because he likes what he gets from them...most of the time money.

so it's either you will be riche abusiness man or a poor man with dignity. you pick...

Idon't know???