You can't get along with everybody, the truth of the matter is nobody does; no one, I mean no one gets along with everybody. Except that some people are more likable than others, so they are tolerated, while others are harshly cornered. They have to prove themselcves to everybody, worst than that, they have to walk on eggs without craking the shells.
As I said, Some people could manage to deal with people in a friendly way, they are likable, so they are accepted by the people wether they done wrong or they done right. But, it's hard when a person is not getting along with others, let alone when they are not getting along with everybody. Who is fault it is? the one who is not getting along with others? or the others who are not getting along with the individual?
It's a tricky question, but I'll do my best to answer it. Obviously most of you would say, no the problem is in the individual not in the crowd. Folowing the most rediculous concept ever created -Democracy- the majority is lways right...even if the majority consist of idiots and nut cases. As much as I want to agree with that, it's not always the case. Take for example the jews in the Hitler era, or the Muslims in the Bin Laden era, or the Blacks in the slvery/racism era...or... etc. you get the picture? Were they hated for a reason, were they asked to walk on eggs and not break the shells...yes! was that justified by the crwod? yes! Sadly, that's the way it is, unless we have something to say about it...which I assume we do have something to say about it, but are we going to say it?
Give it a minute...
Humans in some creeds are reduced to the animal level, in order for them to survive they have to litteraly kill someone, or in some cases everyone around them...and the kills they do are all justified if you look at them from their own perspectives. But, the kills that we see in performed by soldiers for oeil, hate, racism, and other purposes are not justified. I can even assure it that they will come back and bite you in the arse. especially when the principale we envisioned is :"don't mess with me, if you want me to not invade you and kill your people" we know what's wrong, we know what's right, we choose to the wrong thing, if it backlaches on us, let's not say: "we asked for it".
therefore, when we don't get along with someone, we better leave them alone. don't look into the differences too much rather into the similarities, I would say puff and make the world a peacfull place; you would, too. But, you don't want to, and I don't think I want either. That's why we are not getting along; just in case you want to change that...here is the tip: don't be afraid of talking to the other: whatever you disagree about, whatever you dislike about them, whatever you even hate about them can be something you could talk about and words always resolve conflicts. Keep in mind that some words make conflicts live forever, too. This means you need to choose your words, when you talk...
second tip: You can't really get along with everybody. some people doesn't have the mental abilities to process what you are up to, and their thoughts have left them behind and so did natural selection. So, don't ever try to get along with everybody, cauz you'll fail!
I wish I knew this before!
No comments:
Post a Comment